Continuous Journey Requires Specific Goals

“The point is that you are back, wobbly or not!” When I wrote about getting back on the bicycle after time away from doing things that had been a natural part of my life, a friend of mine made that comment.

I loved this, because it was so accurate. That’s exactly how I felt!

But now it’s time to take the next steps and I’m going all in. One thing that is fair to say about me is that most of the time I don’t dip my toe into the shallow end of the pool. I just dive right into the deep end. 

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I’m diving back into my health and wellness. 

For reference, I’m no stranger to being in really great shape. I was the type of person who would routinely be at the gym for close to two hours daily and ran half marathons. While I still have my gym membership, I haven’t been there in months (some of it due to COVID-19) and I haven’t run a half-marathon in four years. 

To say I have a lot of momentum to regain is an understatement, but I’m putting some pieces in place to hold myself accountable and have set some very specific goals.


Over the next 10 weeks, I’m focused on getting back some of the physical shape I’ve lost through the following goals:

  1. By the end of 10 weeks, I will be able to run a 10K. I’m not concerned about time yet. My focal point is to complete a virtual run.
  2. During this time frame, I will lose 10-12 pounds. Roughly a pound a week is doable.
  3. While my BMI is a perfectly acceptable 22.1, my goal is to get under 20.
  4. In addition to my physical health, I’m also focusing on centering myself better mentally and spiritually. 


Sure, it’s great to have goals, but how am I going to get there? You can’t have a destination without having an idea of how you’re going to get there.

  1. To run a 10K, I have downloaded Runkeeper to track my runs. I have also planned my runs on a calendar, 3-4 days a week. (Since I have trained for half-marathons, I know how to schedule my running workouts.)
  2. Losing the weight will come through tracking my macros. Using the macro calculator on healthyeater.com, my focus is 200g – carbs, 81g – protein (I’m shooting more for 50-60), and 53g – fat. Each day I will put my daily intake in a spreadsheet. In addition, I’m planning to drink at least 60 oz. of water daily.
  3. For my BMI, running and eating better will make a big difference, but I’m a gym junkie and I’m most excited about getting back to lifting weights consistently. I use the Shred app, and I will get in 3-4 workouts a week.
  4. My one word intention is “Center” and this is a big one for me. I regularly meditate, do a daily bible study, and journal. However, I want to put it all together – my physical, mental, and spiritual health. Therefore, I’m taking part in Becca Shern’s The Healthy & Whole Project. Becca is a registered dietitian with a master’s degree in public health. 

“During the nine weeks of The Healthy & Whole project you will discover how to nourish your body, mind, and soul to see gradual but long-lasting results.” (Excerpt from the description about the project on her website.)

Here’s what I love the most about Becca’s program: She gets it. During this stressful time, she understands that finances are tight for a lot of us and so she is offering this program as Pay As You Can, Standard Price, or Superhero Price. I hope you check it out (and join me)!

  1. Probably the most daunting of all is to post before and after photos, but that’s a huge accountability piece to see how far I come in 10 weeks. No, I’m not expecting monumental changes, but I know I will see progress.
  2. Finally, I’m going to document my journey on my website twice a week (Mondays/Thursdays) and once a week on Medium (Mondays).


This is the most important piece. If you don’t have strong reasons for your goals, it doesn’t matter what the process is, you won’t follow through. 

  1. I have one amazing life to live and I want to be as healthy as I can so that I can enjoy it to the fullest extent possible.
  2. I know that when I’m in great shape that everything else falls into place. I simply feel better about everything else.
  3. I’m a classroom teacher, and leading by example is very important to me. It’s not only about my content as an English teacher but also as a leader of young people.
  4. I’m about to be a first-time grandma and I want to have the energy to keep up with my grandson.

Wrapping It Up

I can’t even begin to tell you how excited I am about embarking on this journey, or rather continuing on this journey! While I know it might look somewhat ambitious, remember, I like diving into the deep end of the pool. Feel free to join me if you’re ready to jump in.


Unexpected time off, unexpected thoughts

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To borrow an overused word, it’s been a ‘surreal’ start to my spring break as a classroom teacher. This is the first time I’ve had a spring break in my educational career, and while I thought I would be giving myself a long to-do list to accomplish this week, I find myself in thoughtful contemplation more often than tackling the list.

This contemplative state has much to do with the worldwide pandemic of COVID-19 and the unknowns it has created. A one week spring break has turned into an indefinite future, and I find myself a little lost, annoyed, and yet relaxed.

Lost because school districts in my state are in a holding pattern right now. My district’s leaders are trying to figure out how to best serve our students moving forward. While we were told to relax and enjoy the break, it’s a challenge not knowing how things are going to be moving forward.

Even though there are unknowns, there are things I can control. I’ve already given myself a daily schedule to keep me on track with self-care, learning, and entertainment. I have two daily exercise routines in place, one through the Shred app and the other by going for a walk with my husband so we get some fresh air. If nothing else, I’m going to be in great shape!

However, following so many small businesses on Instagram is breaking my heart as they are closing indefinitely, adjusting hours to be in alignment with state guidelines by offering curbside and/or takeout options, sending reminders about their online stores, etc. I think about everyone in the service industry who suddenly find themselves without an income. There are always things we can do. Buy gift cards at favorite eateries to use in the future when they are back on their feet, or send a little love to your service professionals via Venmo when you have to reschedule with them. I keep trying to think about ways to be supportive.

I also think about the parents who can’t take their kids to daycare, because it is closed for now and they have to figure out how they are going to continue working while also caring for their kids. While it doesn’t solve the riddle of financial strain, this is a gift of time. Read with your kids, take them outside and go for a walk, play games, build a fort in the living room, draw pictures, put puzzles together, bake with them, teach them life skills, etc.

Teaching myself to slow down and relax is paramount right now. I’m reminding myself how truly blessed I am and that the world is hurting right now. Healthcare professionals are already exhausted and facilities are maxed out. While it doesn’t seem to be enough, I’m spending more time in prayer. I’m praying that people use common sense by staying home as much as possible. I’m praying that world leaders make decisions that are in the best interest of their citizens and that as citizens we follow them. This is not the time to be a precocious, stubborn child who does not want to be told what to do. Being selfless means thinking about others instead of doing what we want to do when we want to do it.

While I want to go out for a coffee with my friend, head to the bookstore to get the book that was ordered for me, and go to my hair appointment to get the gray out, home is where I will be. I hope you will be too.


Taking a break is okay

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Sometimes I just need a break. I need to stop what I’m doing and alleviate the undue stress I’m putting on myself.

Recently, the undue stress has been writing. Every time I sit down to start a new blog post, I look at the blinking cursor with a ton of thoughts running through my mind but nothing concrete makes it to the screen.

Ideas aren’t the problem. My head trash? Now that’s another story. When I think about writing on a particular a topic, I recall all the articles I’ve already read about it and doubt I can put a different spin on it. I remind myself that my voice will give it a fresh perspective, but when the words begin to come out they sound contrived and artificial. Like it’s not my voice.

I go back to the drawing board. I read and I write down additional ideas. I took the advice of another writer to jot down 10 possible headlines each day. Yeah, that lasted about three days. While I had 30 headlines, I didn’t do anything with them. I know it didn’t give it enough of a chance, and I do think it has merit. Maybe I will give it another go.

Then there are the times that I plan out my writing. For example, I tell myself that I will put out new content on Mondays and Thursdays. That way I have a few days to develop an idea, give it some time to simmer, go back to edit, and then finalize. It’s a great plan that I have yet to execute.

Planning will many times give way to flat out procrastination. For example, I have a snow day today from my day job as a teacher. It’s a free day that gives me ample time to write. Instead, I’ve cleaned the apartment, sent some email correspondence, checked social media more than I care to admit, made a second pot of coffee, read my book, booked flights for an upcoming trip in April, ordered tickets to a comedy show for the weekend, boiled eggs (random, I know), and chatted with my husband.

While it sounds like a productive day so far, it isn’t when my intention was to write. I got lots of “stuff” done but not what I told myself I was going to do.

That’s when it dawned on me.

It’s completely okay to take a break. I’m finally giving myself permission to let the head trash go. Maybe I needed this little hiatus to get myself writing again. That, and nachos. A break to have nachos is also okay.


Friday nights are for meal planning

I’m trying to find ways to create this delicious pizza from Biggio’s in Houston.

Figuring out new recipes is what everyone does on a Friday night, right?


Okay, maybe it’s just me then, but this is exactly what I’m doing tonight because I finally got fed up with our eating pattern. Or lack thereof.

My husband and I have been doing this delicate balance of trying to adhere to both of our eating styles. He’s a diehard carnivore and I’m a diehard vegetarian. You would think we would simply be able to make a vegetarian recipe and add the meat.

Theoretically it makes sense but is hard to put into practice when only one of us eats meat. After three days of eating a leftover pork loin on his own, my husband has about had it.

And then you have to add in our different tastes in various foods. For example, we both like pasta but completely different types. He likes regular, white pasta. I like gluten free and wheat pasta. So, when I make a pasta dish I cook two different pastas.

Two pastas for two people. A bit ridiculous, don’t you think?

What ends up happening is we do grab and go dinners that fit our tastes but aren’t necessarily the healthiest choices. I finally got tired of that insanity and decided to spend my Friday night doing…you guessed it…looking for recipes.

My plan is to try three different ones each week. I found five ingredient vegetarian recipes that we can add meat to for my husband’s portion. They all revolve around fresh vegetables and very few processed foods. I have even taken a couple of the processed options and inserted fresh.

This week we will be trying black bean quesadillas (adding hamburger for my husband), green pizza (adding chicken), and spaghetti genovese (adding pork loin). I found all three recipes at eatingwell.com. All three had a rating of at least four stars out of five, so I figure we are on the right track.

If you’re looking for some new options to try that seem pretty simple, give Eating Well a try and let me know what you think. (And no, I don’t get any kickback from mentioning the website. I just wanted to share.)

Teaching Middle School During a Pandemic Has Its Benefits

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While many of my teacher friends share tales of woe and

While many of my teacher friends share tales of woe and higher stress levels, I would like to offer an alternate view of teaching during the pandemic.

Yes, a majority of us have been thrown into something we’ve never experienced. As a 26-year veteran, I thought I had pretty much seen it all, and then COVID-19 happened.

In some ways, it’s a bit (or a lot) of a shit show. Even the school districts who probably felt like they were somewhat prepared for distance learning have experienced curveballs they weren’t expecting.

We are suddenly being thrown into the world of Zoom meetings, using Padlet, creating lessons that can be both digital and paper-copied, and figuring out ways to keep students engaged and motivated.

We are asking ourselves how we can deliver essential learnings and pondering the ethics of grading when all students cannot be reached either by choice or necessity. Teachers report spending more time on lessons and responding to student work.

And then there are our parents who are trying to work full days, are making sure their kids’ basic needs are being met, and are filling in as teachers.

It’s no wonder stress levels are through the roof. School districts are trying to make decisions to meet the needs of every student. Individual teachers are trying to deliver content. Parents are trying to fill in the gaps. Students are trying their best, but many of them are frustrated and tapped out.

It feels like a no-win situation.

How my school district is handling curriculum.

At the district level for our middle school curriculum, we have broken it down into six essential learnings over a six-week period. There are six of us in the department at my school and we are in teams of two, so every three weeks it’s my team’s turn to take one of the essential learnings to deliver a lesson. Even if 117 of our students turn in the work for the week, the feedback is divided by my teaching partner and me. We would each have roughly 59 responses in a perfect world, but as you can guess it’s much fewer than that. In any given week, I’m responding to around 25 assignments.

While I would much rather be responding to all students, I will take what I can get at this point.

I know I’m very fortunate in the way my district has decided to handle what we are doing at the middle school level. Many of my counterparts in other school districts are having so much more put on their plates. I get why their stress levels and anxiety are causing sleepless nights.

As with everything, there are parents who feel like we should be doing more while others think it’s too much.

Again, it’s a no-win situation.

Why I’m framing it differently.

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Instead of looking at teaching right now as the entirety of the picture above, I’m focusing on what I can control within the frame.

It’s making all the difference for me.

While I’m adhering to our district’s expectations, I decided to do something to feel more connected to my students. It also falls under the category of something I’ve never experienced.

I decided to create a YouTube Channel, and I post daily videos. (You can check it out here.) Each video is roughly 3–5 minutes, and I give students a daily challenge to complete for points if they choose to do so. These challenges range from explaining their personal meaning of a quote, determining the parts of speech for a sentence, or telling a story using a prompt.

In addition, they can continue turning in book reviews (something we also did while school was in session) for more points. Completing the district assignment for the week is also worth a varied number of points.

While there are significant academic challenges, the videos are somewhat entertaining (or I’m sure weird, according to my students). My husband comes on to deliver dad jokes twice a week. Our cat Chloe has made a couple of guest appearances. I record the video from different parts of our apartment. Sometimes there’s even singing, or what I like to call, making a joyful noise.

At the end of each week, I add up student points. If students participate in the district assignment and in at least two of my activities, they are put into a drawing for gift cards. Three students are drawn each week and then I send them the gift card with a note letting them know how much I appreciate their participation and hard work.

The end result.

While I wish more students participated, I get that it’s not realistic for every student. Some don’t have technology or a way to get the paper copies. Some parents simply don’t have enough hours in the day to be able to sit down with their students. For some of my students, they are fortunate if their daily needs are being met. It’s a matter of survival.

For the students who are participating regularly, they are blowing my mind! Several of them are writing more than they ever did in a classroom assignment. I believe much of it has to do with the creativity behind the lessons. Much of our curriculum is so structured that there isn’t time for the creative endeavors.

Having less stringent guidelines during this time is giving me the opportunity to give students more creative, outside the box assignments. For example, one day I asked them to draw a picture of a hamburger riding a bicycle and then to write a story as to why this would be happening. Another day, they wrote about building a snowman with the added component of highlighting the prepositions they used. Creating a sculpture out of paper and telling me about it was another way for students to explore and try something new. They are taking more risks and writing more than they did previously.

More importantly, I have gotten to know some of my students a lot better during this time. It’s a weird feeling, because there were students who showed up to my classroom day in and day out, did their thing, and then moved on to the next class. Now I’m finding out more about their interests, what they are excited about, and what is bothering them during this time.

They are opening up and sharing more of themselves with me through the written word. They share a word document with me and continue to add to it each day. Others send emails with their responses. They know I’m checking in daily during my office hours, so they know when to expect feedback.

No, it’s not perfect, but then again it’s not going to be. We are living in a very strange time right now. I’m not kicking curriculum to the curb, but I am putting a lot less importance on it and making more time for connections. Students need to know they are being heard and that I care.

And that is a win-win situation.

Books and coffee – an afternoon delight

I loved my afternoon.

Instead of coming home after work and jumping right into working out, cleaning, or starting dinner, I stopped by Startbucks for an afternoon treat. I dropped off my bag when I got to our apartment, put a couple of things away, grabbed a book and headed out to the deck with my iced coffee in hand.

It was wonderful.

It was blissful, because I let go of my work day. Don’t get me wrong. It was another great day in the classroom, but it was nice to come home and not rush into something else. However, it was a challenge. I’m so used to going from one thing to another with such a sense of urgency. You know what I mean?

I kept reminding myself to slow down and took deep breaths. I made myself stop looking at my watch. I finally settled in and read my book and drank my coffee. I did it for a solid hour and it was a very productive hour. It was productive because it allowed me to take time for myself.

While I know a majority of women and men don’t have the luxury of having an hour to take time to read or self-care in other ways, I want to encourage you to do what you can when you can. Take 5, 10, or 15 minutes to simply do something you enjoy. By doing so, you are better for yourself and for others.

Starting new adventures: both exciting and scary

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Starting something new is always an adventure. An adventure that is mixed with both excitement and being scared. Excitement of the unknown. Scared of the unknown.

But mostly excitement.

I finally made some decisions about the direction of my writing. After four years of using Weebly and then another year of sampling WordPress, I decided to close down my other website with Weebly and focus solely on my blogs on both WordPress and Medium.

It’s exciting, because I feel WordPress will be a better host for my blog posts over the long haul. However, it’s still a new platform for me to use. Although I like learning new things as they force me to concentrate, I also like the familiarity of working with something I already know.

It’s definitely a Catch 22.

I have also switched everything else officially over to Everyday Life Uncluttered. My email address is everydaylifeuncluttered@gmail.com (drop me a line sometime) and my Twitter handle is now eluncluttered (can’t have more than 15 characters).

It is great to finally streamline my brand away from Get to It to Everyday Life Uncluttered. The only piece I haven’t changed is my weekly newsletter. Currently, it’s GTI (short for Get to It) Wednesday. I’m working on a better tagline for my newsletter but I’m not quite there yet.

Speaking of my newsletter, it’s GREAT! However, I need to figure out how to get people to a subscription option as that was on my previous website.

Other than that, I love that my brand has completely shifted (almost) to Everyday Life Uncluttered! I’m looking forward to writing content consistently and to connecting with you on simple living and positive vibes.

Here’s to new adventures, both exciting and scary!

And the adventure begins

“You best start believin’ in ghost stories, Miss Turner, you’re in one.” –Captain Barbossa

Adventures are generally positive experiences, yet often contain their share of chaos and unpredictability.

It’s at that point of craziness when I think of the line in Pirates of the Caribbean: The Curse of the Black Pearl when Captain Barbossa says, “You best start believin’ in ghost stories, Miss Turner, you’re in one!”

Cue the look of horror on Elizabeth Swann’s (Turner) face from the movie, and that’s about the look I feel is on my face. The look that says I’m terrified and have absolutely no idea what is going to happen next.

And once I get past that look, I let the panic subside and determine what my next steps are.

I’m currently in the middle of my latest adventure which is starting this website. I’ve been contemplating the move from my current website to WordPress for quite some time, and for whatever reason, I decided now was the right time to make the leap. While I am enjoying learning something new and different, I’m also failing right and left.

“Success is the ability to go from failure to failure without losing your enthusiasm.” –Winston Churchill

It’s scary and thrilling at the same time to fail. I keep reminding myself that with each failure comes the wisdom of learning something from it so that I don’t continue to make the same mistakes over and over. This is great in theory, but I also get frustrated and am prone to making repeated mistakes.

It’s a vicious cycle, that’s for sure.

But I’m also excited! Very excited. By making this leap, I’m upping my game by taking myself more seriously as a writer. I’m getting out of my comfort zone to give myself an opportunity to reach a wider audience with my message of simple living through daily experiences.

So, here’s to the beginning of a new adventure!


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